After all, failure is the pillar of success!
When life goes awry, it is important to understand why this is happening. To survive under the enormous pressure of conventions of modern society, we have to be self-critical and confident that our behavior has no place in such shortcomings and mistakes that we can not guess. Recognizing the problem solves half the problem.
Here are 7 main reasons of our failure.
01. Lack of Persistence
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You will see a lot of people just quit their work not because they lack talent, but because they are not persistent. Always remember that you must do what you need to do. Don’t leave anything halfway. Give it your best try. You just need to change your strategy. If you are doing any business and it is a failure, don’t apply the same strategy, adopt new things. Use your experience to guide you.
02. Not controlling ourselves
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We refuse to listen to reasonable arguments, lose patience, beside ourselves, we exhaust ourselves in a corner. Emotions have a little to do with our success, at first we need to become cautious and have the power of controlling our motives.
03. We think of the world of luxury
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It’s not bad, but we must do some works before we think of luxury. We constantly hear about success stories, but we need to know that there are stories behind their success. Those stories are main things that can inspire us. The vast majority of people around us have completely different life, they cling to the past, make unforgivable mistakes, make rash decisions, and despise those who love them, and love those who despise them. They fail. They try to fix it, but nothing happens. They do not succeed, in spite of all efforts. So, it is important to make right choice if we want to be successful.
04. We envy instead of cheering
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We envy people who are at times more successful than us. We really want to be like them, but still, we remain ourselves. We just exhaust our life by doing this. Why he, and not me? As if the stock of happiness in this world is limited and only some people have them. Here, we also need to think what made him successful. Perhaps, he didn’t sleep for night working in office.
05. Lack of Discipline
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We can never do anything big without discipline. Self-control and sacrifice make a lot of changes in our lives. It’s definitely not being perfectionist, it’s all about controlling our life, emotion and work. Motivation is also important when you want to accomplish something.
06. Poor Self-Esteem
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Lack of self-respect is one of the biggest mistakes in our life. Confidence makes everything much easier. People who lack confidence, can’t achieve bigger things. Don’t try to label yourself, your failure will teach you how to be successful.
07. Fear of failure
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Probably, the main and common reason behind our failure. We are so afraid of failure that we don’t ever try to do anything. People think what will happen and then they take a pause for unlimited time. Time flies and nothing happens. Start dreaming big and you will discover that when your dreams are born from the heart there is no fear that can stop you.
We need to remember that there are no failures, there are only results. If something goes wrong, you simply have to learn the lesson to be more effective on the next try. Past mistakes give us experience for our beter life.